News from the last few days! Yesterday I did my annual skin check-up, where we look for suspicious moles and I hold my breath in fear for twenty minutes. We didn't find any, but two new moles made the list of "keep an eye on them". Stupid moles. If it were up to me, I'd cut them all off! And that's why I'm not a surgeon. :D
This morning, after the usual bank-and-offices stuff I went for lunch with a friend. It was my first time seeing her house, and we had a lovely time chatting about anything and everything and running after her cats. We made plans for next Carnevale, and it'll be my first time dressing up for Carnevale in 18 years, wow. I know, I'm a shame to my own city, but ever since hitting puberty I've been avoiding the crowds of Carnevale in Venice like a vampire avoids sunlight. It will be a huge trip down memory lane indeed. ^^ And nope, we haven't decided on our costumes yet. My only input is: it should be really warm and include a wig or a hat. I get cold very easily.
I came back home in the late afternoon, and then I got a call about my new glasses. They're ready! I can't wait! I'll go and get them on Friday, and then take pictures to post here. *____*
And to spoil my good mood, I just had a really horrible conversation with my neighbour. This needs a little intro, though. As you all know, there's been lots of war refugees from Syria and some African countries escaping to Italy during the last few years. Lately it's been getting worse and worse, with no help from the EU at all. Many of these refugees have been given temporary homes all across Italy, and one of these homes is ten meters from our building. There's usually around ten men staying there at any given time, and they keep to themselves. Me, I feel much safer now that they are here. They spend the day on the big balcony that faces our door, and it's great when I come back home late, and it's dark, and there's always a little group of them watching over me. Other than that, it's almost as if they weren't even there.
And then five minutes ago my next door neighbour rang on my door because he wanted to ask me to sign a petition to get them kicked out of our neighbourhood, because it "used to be a nice neighbourhood and now it's a slum". I calmly asked him if they had bothered him in any way. If they'd even talked to him, or his wife, listened to loud music, or anything like that. He said that no, they hadn't done any of those things, but he was annoyed by their talking and their laundry. I told him my flat is way closer to their balcony than his, and when they are there they talk in a normal tone of voice, and I've been able to sleep soundly all summer. I asked him if he was disturbed by my laundry too. All of this, in a nice, polite tone of voice. He didn't know how to answer to that, because he was so sure I would have agreed with him, and my questions shocked him. I smiled and told him to come back when he had photographic evidence that any of the men next door were doing anything illegal, as defined by the laws of our country. Until then, he was not to disturb them or me. And then I shut the door in his face.
Sadly, the region where I live, Veneto, is the most racist region in Italy. But it still baffles me when things like this happen. My neighbour's wife had tried to approach me on the same matter a few weeks back, but she was way more shameful about it, and shut up as soon as she realized I was not agreeing with her. Considering their two screaming kids make much more noise than ten war refugees put together, I know what kind of petition I'd like to sign and nail on their stupid door! What bothers me the most is the thought if they were ever to go there and spout any of this shit to those men's faces, it would be horrifying and I would die of shame to even be associated to these persons. I should probably talk to the building manager and tell him from the start I strongly disagree with anything my neighbour says on anything, just to be on the safe side!
And now dinner and some chocolate, because I really need something sweet to fight all the bitterness that stupid selfish man threw at me!
This morning, after the usual bank-and-offices stuff I went for lunch with a friend. It was my first time seeing her house, and we had a lovely time chatting about anything and everything and running after her cats. We made plans for next Carnevale, and it'll be my first time dressing up for Carnevale in 18 years, wow. I know, I'm a shame to my own city, but ever since hitting puberty I've been avoiding the crowds of Carnevale in Venice like a vampire avoids sunlight. It will be a huge trip down memory lane indeed. ^^ And nope, we haven't decided on our costumes yet. My only input is: it should be really warm and include a wig or a hat. I get cold very easily.
I came back home in the late afternoon, and then I got a call about my new glasses. They're ready! I can't wait! I'll go and get them on Friday, and then take pictures to post here. *____*
And to spoil my good mood, I just had a really horrible conversation with my neighbour. This needs a little intro, though. As you all know, there's been lots of war refugees from Syria and some African countries escaping to Italy during the last few years. Lately it's been getting worse and worse, with no help from the EU at all. Many of these refugees have been given temporary homes all across Italy, and one of these homes is ten meters from our building. There's usually around ten men staying there at any given time, and they keep to themselves. Me, I feel much safer now that they are here. They spend the day on the big balcony that faces our door, and it's great when I come back home late, and it's dark, and there's always a little group of them watching over me. Other than that, it's almost as if they weren't even there.
And then five minutes ago my next door neighbour rang on my door because he wanted to ask me to sign a petition to get them kicked out of our neighbourhood, because it "used to be a nice neighbourhood and now it's a slum". I calmly asked him if they had bothered him in any way. If they'd even talked to him, or his wife, listened to loud music, or anything like that. He said that no, they hadn't done any of those things, but he was annoyed by their talking and their laundry. I told him my flat is way closer to their balcony than his, and when they are there they talk in a normal tone of voice, and I've been able to sleep soundly all summer. I asked him if he was disturbed by my laundry too. All of this, in a nice, polite tone of voice. He didn't know how to answer to that, because he was so sure I would have agreed with him, and my questions shocked him. I smiled and told him to come back when he had photographic evidence that any of the men next door were doing anything illegal, as defined by the laws of our country. Until then, he was not to disturb them or me. And then I shut the door in his face.
Sadly, the region where I live, Veneto, is the most racist region in Italy. But it still baffles me when things like this happen. My neighbour's wife had tried to approach me on the same matter a few weeks back, but she was way more shameful about it, and shut up as soon as she realized I was not agreeing with her. Considering their two screaming kids make much more noise than ten war refugees put together, I know what kind of petition I'd like to sign and nail on their stupid door! What bothers me the most is the thought if they were ever to go there and spout any of this shit to those men's faces, it would be horrifying and I would die of shame to even be associated to these persons. I should probably talk to the building manager and tell him from the start I strongly disagree with anything my neighbour says on anything, just to be on the safe side!
And now dinner and some chocolate, because I really need something sweet to fight all the bitterness that stupid selfish man threw at me!