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[nausicaa83]

Now, this day shall be remembered in history. My cousin hates me because I scolded her. :P We were coming back from the hospital (!), and we were walking where mom's accident occured (!!), and she was telling us how car accidents never occur, and it's stupid to be scared of cars, as obviously drivers can see us and always stop (!!!). Take your time while the enormous idiocy sinks in. Done? Let's move on. I tried a sarcastic answer, just to make her shut her mouth: "And now how come we just visited my mom in an hospital?". She just stared at me, and went along with her talk. Then she started making fun of her mother (as my aunt, since the accident, is really scared of crossing streets). So I turned around, and screamed "WILL YOU SHUT THE FUCK UP, YOU IDIOT?! SAY ONE MORE WORD AND I'LL HIT YOU SO HARD YOU'LL END ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE ROAD!!!". And I rushed back home. Now, my behaviour was childish, no doubt, but I can't be mature all the fucking time. I'm an adult, I know, but I'm an adult with a few traumas! But obviously, now she's angry with me, and she sent her mother to convince me to apologize to her. First time I ever laughed in my aunt's face. I made her (politely) notice that her so-spoiled daughter's the one at wrong, and she'll never learn anything from life if we make her believe that she's always right and everyone owes her something. She treats her mother like a slave, mocks her and everything. If I had told my mom a third of what she tells her mom daily, my dad would have ended up scratching my remains off the wall! So, even if it sounds truly ridicolous, she's still angry at me. But I won't give up on this one, she has to learn something from living with me. After all she's already 15, she can't act as she were 6.

On another note, I suppose she likes me, if my opinion makes such a difference to her! XD

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[nausicaa83.livejournal.com]

"Tactless" describes in one word my cousin. She just doesn't give a damn of what people think. Yesterday, after lunch, I still had my period, so I fell asleep on my bed (you know, when you're feeling ditzy, and full, and sore, and everything). After a while I got waken up by some loud voices:

Aunt: You can't go and wake her up, she's tired, poor child.
Cousin: I say, WAKE HER UP. I've come here 'cause I want to go around downtown and do shopping and everything, I most surely won't stay here all day!
Aunt: Don't speak that loud, she'll wake up.
Cousin: That's why, WAKE HER UP!!!!

So, while covering my poor ears, I fought with this terrible problem: completely wake up, and do what they wanted so that I could have some peace, even if I didn't want to get dressed and go outside at all, or act as if I was still asleep and make her go angrier and angrier? I chose the first option as the second one looked too childish, and obviously when I came back (and when the screaming occured), I was even more tired, sore and depressed than before.

So, she could have all the "wake up calls" you could give her in two lifetimes, and she'd remain the same... I just have to avoid listening to her, it's my aunt's duty to teach her what's right and what's wrong, surely not mine, I already have too many problems. =_=

[tati81.livejournal.com]

Come scusa??? E' venuta per uscire e fare shopping??? E quindi se tu stai male e lei deve restare in casa non va' bene? Fammi capire.... io alla sua età sono stata 2 settimane in Austria e mi sono dovuta arrangiare, non credo sia così difficile prendere un autobus e andare in centro, cmq. se tua zia non vuole non si discute, però siccome non è in casa sua, accetta di buon grado che tu stai male, e se la mette via. Spero che tu non abbia dovuto uscire a portarla in giro col mal di pancia! Io fossi stata in te mi sarei messa i tappi nelle orecchie e avrei continuato a dormire.

[nausicaa83.livejournal.com]

Altro che tappi nelle orecchie, era meglio colarci del cemento armato. Sì, son dovuta andare fino in centro col mal di pancia (e ovviamente sudavo da cani, com'è logico quando hai le mestruazioni), e quando ho proposto di fare prima un salto in fumetteria per controllare la mia casella, ho potuto restarci solo 5 minuti, perchè mi hanno tampinato nel solito giro continuando a chiedermi "allora hai finito? andiamo? che altro devi fare?". Quando siamo usciti ho cercato di fargli notare che erano stati maleducati, ma si sono messi a ridere. Poi uno si meraviglia se al ritorno mi sono incazzata come una iena.

Comunque, nessuna sorpresa, è ovvio che è venuta qui per fare shopping. Io avevo detto alla zia di avvertirla che sono un tipo casalingo, non vado in centro due volte al giorno, e in genere passo le giornate leggendo un libro e ascoltando musica, ma non so se il messaggio è stato recepito. Io non me la sento di fare tutti 'sti giri che vuole fare lei, con due visite dal dentista, una dall'ottico, e il gatto da portare in pensione, il resto della prossima settimana lo passerei con tanta gioia spaparanzata sul divano a coccolare il gatto. Ma mi sa che invece sarà una settimana pesantissima...