There's nothing I hate more than people who use their illnesses to be pitied. So, you have cancer? Lots of people have cancer! I have lived in oncological hospitals half my life, and met LOTS of people with cancer, so why do you think that makes you special? You're no different than anyone else, you aren't braver, you aren't a martyr, nor a hero. You're just ill. So stop looking for pity, stop screwing around!!!
*sorry, I know it doesn't regard anyone on my f-list, but I just had to tell it. Now I feel better*