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Nausicaa ([personal profile] nausicaa83) wrote2006-05-20 01:15 pm

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There's nothing I hate more than people who use their illnesses to be pitied. So, you have cancer? Lots of people have cancer! I have lived in oncological hospitals half my life, and met LOTS of people with cancer, so why do you think that makes you special? You're no different than anyone else, you aren't braver, you aren't a martyr, nor a hero. You're just ill. So stop looking for pity, stop screwing around!!!


*sorry, I know it doesn't regard anyone on my f-list, but I just had to tell it. Now I feel better*

[identity profile] nausicaa83.livejournal.com 2006-05-20 03:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Chibi, che pucci!

*death by cute*

[identity profile] dragons-f-wolf.livejournal.com 2006-05-20 05:33 pm (UTC)(link)
My mother-in-law does that and she doesn't even have cancer, she is diabetic.
Oh, I can't eat that, I'm diabetic, poor poor me. Think of me while you're enjoying that candy/cake/burger/etc.
Uh,no. I want to enjoy it, thank you.

She also uses my little boy's "problem" to get sympathy.
My grandson is autistic. He'll never be able to get a job, ride a bike, drive a car, have a girlfriend. He's in such bad shape.
Stop right there. He's autistic, not brain dead. He'll most likely be able to do all of those things, so stfu!

[identity profile] nausicaa83.livejournal.com 2006-05-20 06:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Doesn't that make you want to hit her with a broomstick? AAAARGHHHHHH! And there are so many of them, we need lots of brooms!

[identity profile] dragons-f-wolf.livejournal.com 2006-05-20 06:11 pm (UTC)(link)
The worst part part is when she tells Dragon everything he won't be able to do and makes him come crying to me. I don't just want to hit her with a broomstick then, I want to beat her to a bloody pulp with one.

[identity profile] nausicaa83.livejournal.com 2006-05-20 06:26 pm (UTC)(link)
WHAT????!!!! How dares she?!!!!!!!!!!!!! Poor kid!!! But who does she think she is?? I'm so enraged...

[identity profile] dragons-f-wolf.livejournal.com 2006-05-21 02:17 am (UTC)(link)
And she wonders why he likes his Nana Viv (my mother) better. Gee, there's a brain-teaser. lol We tell him to never listen to her, that she doesn't know what she's talking about.

[identity profile] nausicaa83.livejournal.com 2006-05-21 06:09 am (UTC)(link)
But I know that being a kid it's difficult to understand that an adult can be an asshole, and that's it. =_=

[identity profile] gally-lingua.livejournal.com 2006-05-20 08:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Such people are real pathetic. Yet i feel slight pity for them, because illness that can't go away is like a bane. They feel under the net of their illness because they can't cure it (and don't know how to deal with it), so all they think they can do is to tell everyone how misery they are. Much time must pass before they get used to it... A friend of mine is diabetic, she doesn't complain yet she's been constantly depressed for a year since she got it. My granny-in-law likes complaining about some of her pains in back and legs but i forgive her because she's had a very hard life. Sympathy cures her if not physically than mentally. These people are not strong like you. I don't know how i feel about them)) But it's not contempt.

What is really annoying is those people who want to look heroes and to be pitied because of their problems. Every day I say "How're doing" to one so-called friend of mine and there she begins moaning, describing her everyday silly problems about homework and her raws with guys in every-single-detail. My other new friend has already disappointed me, as when we meet all she talks about is angsty stuff: she swears and criticises and judges somebody or something. She thinks she looks cool this way or that I sympathise with her. Guh! Their fake strength! I don't even wish to respect such people! You don't like your life - shut up and fight. Learn how to enjoy every day which is ending one minute at a time (pardon, here goes fight club). Other humans have troubles too. My friend is about to be expelled next week, I'm still not prepared for exams and now have sleep and heart trouble. So today i had a nice walk and enjoyed sunny spring Moscow. I searched for FMA dvd and bought a bar of chocolate for my sister. At times we all want to be pitied but it's gruesome as a lifestyle. It is pathetic.

Oops, sorry for such post, got inspired kinda:)

[identity profile] nausicaa83.livejournal.com 2006-05-20 09:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Pardon me while I daydream about Moscow in spring... *_____________*

Yep, it's so annoying how some people think they have the worst problems ever, and keep whining about them. Try and put things in perspective, for god's sake! And I'm even atheist, so religion doesn't have anything to do about it. But we have the other side of the coin too. Me, I have lots of people calling me and telling me how horrible and sad my life is. Wow, thank you, that really cheers me up. Jeez... =_= Those two kind of persons I hate most: those who can't see anything besides their own problems, and those who enjoy seeing how lucky they are by having pity for other persons. =_=

[identity profile] juuhachi-go.livejournal.com 2006-05-24 08:30 pm (UTC)(link)
I have to admit that sometimes I act this way, I let me down and I start thinking that most of people have a better life than me -__- and sometimes I leave others behind because I have to think about how pitiful my existence is^^. And I accuse Valeria, my best friend, for the same reason XD.
Woah, I feel horrible XD.
Sometimes I envy who can walk on his own legs. Very often, to tell you the truth... But this happens just when I'm very depressed, you know XD. I'm glad I'm here, alive, in a quite satisfacting shape XD. Or else, I would be an angel who pisses everyone off XD!
... NAUSY, EXCUSE ME?
Is there someone who dares behave thus with you!? Tell them they must mind their own business and stop fucking around. They should take you as an example, instead. You just try your best, you never give up and you are one of the most fantastic people I've ever "met" in my whole life. You're not only funny, you're cultured, full of interests, sweet and charming. Besides, you've got a wonderful voice, it makes me want to squeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeze you in a big big big hug *_*!
*cough*
XD;!
Well, so you're going to graduate on July 3rd, on Valeria's birthday, and three days away from my own birthday^^; I hope this'll bring you good luck è___é!
W-wow *_*.
Dr. Valentina C.
Sounds good *_*.
Everything will be fine ^___^, I'm sure!
XD and when you'll have some free time, come on Messenger ;_; Without you it's boring >O