Such people are real pathetic. Yet i feel slight pity for them, because illness that can't go away is like a bane. They feel under the net of their illness because they can't cure it (and don't know how to deal with it), so all they think they can do is to tell everyone how misery they are. Much time must pass before they get used to it... A friend of mine is diabetic, she doesn't complain yet she's been constantly depressed for a year since she got it. My granny-in-law likes complaining about some of her pains in back and legs but i forgive her because she's had a very hard life. Sympathy cures her if not physically than mentally. These people are not strong like you. I don't know how i feel about them)) But it's not contempt.

What is really annoying is those people who want to look heroes and to be pitied because of their problems. Every day I say "How're doing" to one so-called friend of mine and there she begins moaning, describing her everyday silly problems about homework and her raws with guys in every-single-detail. My other new friend has already disappointed me, as when we meet all she talks about is angsty stuff: she swears and criticises and judges somebody or something. She thinks she looks cool this way or that I sympathise with her. Guh! Their fake strength! I don't even wish to respect such people! You don't like your life - shut up and fight. Learn how to enjoy every day which is ending one minute at a time (pardon, here goes fight club). Other humans have troubles too. My friend is about to be expelled next week, I'm still not prepared for exams and now have sleep and heart trouble. So today i had a nice walk and enjoyed sunny spring Moscow. I searched for FMA dvd and bought a bar of chocolate for my sister. At times we all want to be pitied but it's gruesome as a lifestyle. It is pathetic.

Oops, sorry for such post, got inspired kinda:)